Through my own divorce, what I have learned is that it is not inherently 'wrong' to end a marriage, despite what some religions may contend. Sometimes divorce is far more desirable than for two people to pretend that they have not grown apart and want entirely diffent lifestyles. After 27 years, it was time to make a change, and although I did not prompt the change that ended the marriage, I am finally free to live a life more true to myself. I wish you well, Kristina, and hope you will find the happiness and joy that I have, even if it conflicts with our previous beliefs.