There' not a lot here that I don't agree with. Personally, I don't have a negative reaction to someone wanting to view pornography, as long as it doesn't demonstrate violence against women.

Kinkiness, fetishes, sex for purposes other than procreation are absolutely fine with me. No one has a right to judge --especially the GOP who has now made women's sexuality in the USA their business.

Now, childhood sexual abuse and rape, as you have pointed out, are absolutely atrocious and should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. I am not sympathetic to those who do either.