Simply put, you make a lot of over-generalizations to describe the roles of Feminists.

Some Feminists are stay-at-home moms, as I was for several years. Some are corporate CEOs, while others are out working and mothering, single or otherwise.

Many women and men play overlapping roles as protectors, providers, nurturers, and care-takers throughout their lives. The real biological evolution is to be flexible as the situation demands, and it can be a challenge for either sex at times.

Feminism is about having options, not bashing moms for taking care of their children or women who don't want to be mothers. It's about opening many doors for women instead of boxing them into a narrow role that may not suit them.

Personally, I am a woman who likes to be in many roles and use the talents I have whether they are more feminine or masculine on society's scale.