Chris, what I don't hear you saying about the Australian nor the Thai women is that you have anything significant in common with either. To form a meaningful connection, and not just a convenient one based on economic trading, wouldn't it be better to find someone who shares your passions, beliefs, and dreams? Otherwise won't it just be a superficial relationship whereas you angrily reject women who show little to interest in you and accept others because they value your financial support and status of employment?
I think the women who cancelled dates on you are rude and hurtful, but you shouldn't let that discourage you from finding the right woman based on common interests and goals and not just accept bitter tropes about Feminists and women in general -- both categories of which I belong to.
Do you know what you really value in a partner? If so, how can you connect at that level and not just based on surface stuff?